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Waxing Gibbous in Aquarius hour of Saturn, 35 min Mars's day

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Apache Tear

Also Marekanite, Obsidian nodule

A rounded pebble, black and opaque by reflected light, but clear smoky brown all through when held up to a lamp; often frosted grey where the enclosing rock has weathered off

Crystal system
Amorphous
Hardness
5-5.5 Mohs
Handling
The same volcanic glass as obsidian, brittle and sharp where it chips. A whole nodule is safe in water, but discard any piece that has flaked and never use a chipped one in a drink. Do not let it roll about in a pocket with keys.
In water
Safe

What it is held to be for

An Apache tear is a nodule of obsidian weathered free of its rock. Black in the hand, it is clear brown when held up to a lamp. The name comes from a nineteenth-century Arizona story of women weeping for warriors lost at the cliff, their tears falling as stone. It is folk tradition and no older. It is kept for grief carried while ordinary life goes on.

Folk tradition (Arizona)

Correspondences

These are the tradition's ascriptions, not properties of the mineral.

Planet
Saturn, Moon
Element
Water
Signs
Scorpio, Cancer
Chinese phase
Water
Year animal
Rat, Pig
Centre
Heart Anahata
Sephirah
Binah

How it is used

Carried loose in a pocket where a hand can close on it during the day. Some keep one stone for each thing they are grieving. Small and plain enough that nobody asks about it, which is much of the point.

Today

Hold it up to a window or a lamp until you can see light through it. Then close your hand and let yourself feel whatever that brought up.

A longer working

Choose an evening when you are not expected anywhere. Set the stone in a dish of dry salt or rice. Say the whole of what happened aloud, in order, from the beginning, and not the shortened version you tell other people. When you have finished, lift the stone out, brush it clean, and throw the salt away outside. Carry the stone for as long as you need it and no longer than that.

Works with

Herb
Willow
Incense
Sandalwood